Wednesday, September 14, 2011

rush... mad rush...

Everyday is getting wasted like nothing... sitting in front of my lappy browsing FB,gsmarena.com,flipkart.com,xbhp.com,teambhp, minutes become hours,hours become days,days become week... really don't know how my days are flying by...

Got IMC preparation ,Crescita work,11th hour work of this 4th sem(Yup,last week b4 sem exam),Placement prep work & so on...doing nothing... i'm in a hurry,damn hurry... everywhere... Wanna read books/newspapers/case studies , but even before i start reading the beginning of a sentence, i run to the middle / end of it and finish it without bothering about comprehension ,thanks to my speed reading practise. can't sit and watch 2 mins video in FB without jumping here n there... can't watch single movie at a time... watching movie n browsing parallely... n switching among websites like coco game !! something's happening... life has become rush ...mad rush for something...

which reminds me of the below one...

Once our Professor told that over-usage of laptop affects our thinking capacity and ultimately destroy the human beings' sixth sense completely ! How true ! Yeah,We are Attention deficient generation.The time we spend on an activity is so minuscule that everything we come across has become unnecessary for us to understand/ know / remember .Mostly this can be attributed to over-reliance on Google,Mobile phones and all types of non-sense gadgets ! We are losing our memory power,we keep forgetting things very frequently ! We become literally handicapped without mobile phone for a day ! Are these supposedly "life-easying" technology makes us dumb,fit for nothing,imbecile people? How are we going to get out of this ourself... By consciously avoiding it ? reducing our dependability on them ? How ?


Tuesday, August 30, 2011

my Next Post ?

March'11 was the last time I blogged. It's been almost 6 months now and I have been trying to beat my laziness to blog . I have some handful of topics in mind to go-about, but this lethargic attitude of mine - Gawd ,help me ! Wanna prepare for my Placements for more than a month and I'm still on the "wanna prepare" stage,again because of laziness !

"Not doing anything" is too difficult a skill to acquire - and I'm slowly mastering it :) :( should post in sometime soon...



Sunday, March 27, 2011

Facebook 'n' We


Facebook has been phenomenal - A company that started just in 2004 is valued at close to $70b, as of today.The CEO, who is just 27 years old ,made a fortune of $10b at this stage of his life itself.It should be remembered that "The Geniuses" Bill Gates and Steve Jobs had passed their prime age when they aggrandized such monies !

How could Facebook achieve that ? What makes it 'click' among the 60 million users around the globe ? This blog is about that. Stop , I'm not going to write about Technical aspects of FB ; But about the Human aspects- How FB captivated People!

The FB's idea is very simple : There are so many people in the world,who don't know what to do with their time. You just engage them,everything else will fall in place.

At the outset ,how do people join Facebook ?
It's a Pure social pressure - Your BF/GF /F is on FB.Aint you ?As per the world, if you are not on FB ,you don't exist !

What do people do in Facebook ?
Mindlessly add every chick /chap in the FB to your friends list, just to flaunt your friends count !

What encourages people to spend time on Facebook ?
Appreciation and Recognition. Majority of the human beings are low in self-confidence and do only those things which others approve of .But they don't get such "approve of " occasions in their life;That's where FB pitches in - Your friends are lured to queue up to appreciate you, on your Wall Post,Pictures,links,videos,tags,etc. by a tacit quid-prod-quo agreement ! Appreciation is addiction - As the time goes on, your appetite for appreciations increases and you indulge "living" on FB, literally.

And,
Girls are more getting more addicted to FB than Guys ! - What else would you expect, when tons are friends (esp Guys) post comments for a Wall post just as stupid as "I'm happy 2day!" :) :)

And about the special "like" button of FB ?
It's the best example of how simple an Idea as "like" could change the way people lived ! This helps the laziest of the lazes - They don't even need to punch some keys ; just click "like" and get "Thanks" appreciation from your friend ! By that "like", they spend much lesser time than to comment and still get a reward ! How easy ? ! I know a guy who is slave-to-that like - He always clicks like rather than comment.Always !

If friends appreciations are enough, what FB games & Other applications do ?
Once people started "living" on FB,slowly they find themselves lonely -without any of their friends online on FB to "comment" or "like " .Thence-after they turn their attention to Games and Other applications that feed their laziness. And become completely addicted.

Isn't FB just a fad ?
I believe it is ! People would soon start recognizing how they waste time on FB and start moving on.But FB is doing so many things to make people stick to FB - For instance, it eliminated the Registration ,each time you want to access a site- Now people can login to those sites with their FB id itself !.And one another interesting thing is FB badges.You can let your "presence-felt" throughout the Internet using Badges.

FB is simply trying to monopolize the vast Internet, spread across Continents ! I wished to write a detailed blog about this FB, but it would become too much too do with Human Psychology, which would dissuade people to follow this post and hence I'm stopping here.


Thursday, March 10, 2011

Students, Do Some thinking...

If you want to learn,you have to be an empty-cup ,says Robin Sharma.But,as a student,are you an empty-cup? Are you trying to learn from your Teachers or are you spending your time in finding his/her fault ?

There are certain pertinent questions that I ruminate :

Why are we all so critical ?
Why do we always waste our time in evaluating others ?
Why do we keep blaming others ?
Why do we complain about others ?
Why do spend so much of time just to pin-point others' mistakes ?
Why don't we take them as they are ?

The answer lies in "how we were treated in childhood". If you are an average (including below-par) intelligent guy, then everyone in your surroundings would have compared you with some other fellow and mocked at your intelligence - Your "self " starts taking a blow there and you start feeling uncomfortable slightly.When the same mocking continues,you begin to feel a little different ,not-okay-with-yourself feelings ,which finally snowball into something called complex.And that's where the problem starts.When you are in complex,you start looking at others;start observing them;start comparing with them ;start judging them either as Superior / Inferior to you. In fact,we long to label others as Inferior to us.When you judge others as inferior, you become critical,you start complaining,you start blaming,you waste time on fault-finding. When you do so,your personal ego gets a mild, unsaid, devilish-pleasure and that keeps you on-a-high for some time.You become a slave-to-that-pleasure,unbeknown to yourself, and you go on criticizing others, just to be on-that-high ! And you don't mind, even if that others, are your Teachers ! You just go on that mindless rampage, incessantly!

For brilliant-guys,the case would have been altogether different . He starts snubbing at others right from the day when others start extolling him of his comparative brilliance and he judges others as Inferiors.

So as a student,when we spend time on judging them especially Teachers, what are we doing to them ? What are we doing to us ? Do some thinking ...

But remember, the culprit is a single word - "Comparison". DOT.


Saturday, March 5, 2011

This is how I started talking to girls...

While I was taking Sathya to Tiruvermbur in my bike, we were having a conversation about our first incident of talking to girls. We were teasing and mocking at each other. A few moments later, I thought of translating those vivid-memories of mine into something of a written form .And that’s how I got the idea for this blog J

I wanna pen about 2 of my experiences, though those incidents are slightly embarrassing !

During my HSC:

I’m just a guy who didn’t get an opportunity to study in a co-education school like so many poor-souls out there .Though my school was not co-ed, my tuition was! It had been more than a year, we had been attending tuitions along with gals, but we never used to talk to gals at all. We used to sit as separate groups for gals & guys and each group would act as if the other group didn’t exist.

On an average day, my friend and I were coming out of school, walking, with our cycles. To our surprise, we saw 2 of our tuition gals standing at the entrance of our school and waiting for somebody. We thought that they might be waiting to talk to our Tuition Teachers who were working in our school .But suddenly, One of the gals started walking towards me – It’s just a walking, but you know what happened to me – My heart beats started pulsating and I could hear them loud enough so much so that the outside world sounds got muted , my hands started sweating and my legs started twitching unconsciously. As she started coming closer and closer, the surrounding environment slowly got blurred, just like in movies, and that only gal’s picture was visible. And when she just came near and wanted to ask something, I thought I was all ears. But alas, I wasn't. And what I remember, at the end of that incident, was an unexpected weird-look the gal gave. My friend told me that I was incessantly blinking and nervously laughing when she was asking something. And when she asked me about “Whether we have tuition tomorrow?”, I started blabbering something without even looking at her. And when she asked again I mumbled something this time - I wasn’t mentally prepared to handle such situations hitherto L and that’s why she gave that weird look and left that place! When I think about that incident even now, I feel how pathetic and amusive I was.

During my 1st year @ MIT:

After a heavy Friday night dinner at MIT NV mess, my other class friend and I were walking so lethargically that we found it very hard to move even 100 feet. You could imagine how much we could have eaten then J .And I saw my classmate, yeah a girl, was heading our way to the exit, along with her father .When she was coming near us, I noticed something different in her - She was wearing fresh Jasmine flowers. Out of the blue, she stopped in front of us and started introducing me to his father. Taken by surprise, I became alert, regained my posture and started talking to her and his father .That was what I thought. BUT I WASN’T.I blanked-out this time too – You cannot blame me this time; this time, the culprit was Jasmine flowers. Yes the Jasmine flower’s fragrance! OMG! I never knew flowers’ fragrance could drive you crazy like that. Her father was asking me about studies, new environment, food etc. but I was just nodding my head with a smiling face, just like Subramaniapuram Jai, looking at her without answering even a single question of his! Sensing something odd, her father cut-short the conversation, said bye and left away. As usual, my friend explained about what had transpired later and laughed at me. Yeah, I laughed too! :O

Monday, February 21, 2011

Nadunisi Naaygal


The person who is well-renowned for making breezy-romantic flicks of late, has attempted a genre that's not well exploited in Kollywood yet .Yes Gautam Vasudev menon at a Thriller now ! Though the recent Myskin's Yuthem sei also falls under the same genre , I wasn't quite impressed with it.Blame on in the fact that some of its scenes resembled or rather reminded me of the movie SAW.

I'm not a fan of thrillers. In fact ,I despise such movies.But being an admirer of Menon's work, it was natural of me to have expectation.And the caveats -Not for Weak hearted souls,Only for Multiplex Audience,Only for 1.3o hours ,No Songs & No BGM, have stoked it further. Thanks to my 3rd trim midterms exams,I couldn't see it on the first day but managed to hit the theater on the 3rd day with 13 of my BIM-mates (i.e.) Yesterday @ Ramba Theater ,Trichy.

The movie starts with deafening gun shots at a police officer by a tall guy in a blurred background.And the police falls rather slowly in the nearby stagnant-water and it splashes around.That scene picturisation itself depicts the brilliance of the Auteur Menon.Following that ,in a hospital setup, that tall guy,the protagonist Veera, starts narrating his story(movie story)- A Gautam's cliche. He starts describing about his past experiences and incidences that made him who he is now - An MPD Psychopath Killer ! Through that narration, Menon sheds light on the darkest nature of humans: Incest , Child Abuse & MILF sex.To intensify the impact, he resorts to an overdose of SEX & Violence in a rather new dimension that's unexplored in Tamil cinema yet.The way the protagonist woos girls one by one and killing them are familiar concepts though.After these intro-killings comes Sameera Reddy,the ravishing beauty who gave heart attacks to youths around the world, through the movie Vaaranam Aayiram.Though her character is the turning point of the movie,she fails to score miserably in front of Veera.Her scope is too limited though and I find a thing that's missing this time- Her Charmingness.... A big let down :( Then the story revolves around how Veera kidnaps Sameera and ensuing incidents that lead to his arrest.

Besides Menon & Veera there's a guy who deserves special mention here.It's the Camera-man Manoj Paramahansa.Being a thriller he's got plenty of opportunity to showcase his exquisite skills and he pulls it off so brilliantly.Sometimes you stop following the story and just be awestruck by the way he cranked camera. A Glimpse - In the last scene,Veera would be chasing Sameera in rain and this scene is captured from a top like someone standing just straight above you and watching you from there ! And about lack of music - You wouldn't feel that it lacks music at all ,which can be attributed to Menon's brilliant way of story-telling.

To sum it up all ,it was worthy of my Rs.80/-

There are many people who had written bad reviews about this movie.In fact ,people who came with me bashed movie like anything,but I liked it :) Watch it if you are the one who craves for different genres :)



Thursday, February 17, 2011

Blank

I have been thinking to blog frequently but couldn't do so for one primary reason - You need some content to write about, which i believe that I get, only if i read some books.I don't often get time to read books and hence I'm not able to blog as well.So I thought about why don't I blog about what "I think" - what's getting chewed in my mind often - My perspectives about everything.But I'm afraid that would put me in a disadvantageous situation, where, everybody would know what I'm thinking and would start "Judging me" based on that.Luckily, I'm reminded of Godfather's movie dialogue "Never let others know what you think ! " .
It's true that everybody is eying for an opportunity to snub others even at their slightest mistakes.It's the inherent nature of human being to keep on judging other people on every action they do .They always try to judge others either below or above themselves, and I don't wanna give them a chance to do that here :)
Hence that logically throws me back to square one - What to Blog ? Well, I'm thinking of writing about things happening around me ,that are content-enough for a blog and useful-to-some-extent for the souls that peruse my blog once . OK,I stop this here,got 3rd term midterms exams from morrow.